Just before the Memorial Day weekend, the army sent a question to their Twitter followers: " How did service affect you? " Pfc. Nathan Spencer a scout of the First Infantry Division of the Army. "To serve something bigger than me," says Spencer in the video. "The army has given me the opportunity to do just that, to give to others, to protect the ones I love, and to improve myself as a man and a warrior." The army probably hoped for news in this sense, and it became you. But among the people who are proud of their ministry, many others report a much darker reality in military life, including stories of post-traumatic stress disorder, other health problems, and sexual assault, just to name a few.
"I'm a Navy veterinarian, I was a happy person before I served, now I'm broken I can not because of anxiety and depression work full 30 days. Jeffrey Scott wrote . "I have constant pain every day. And I think about killing myself every day. "
Another answered the Army question by referring to the " Combat Cocktail" which also included "PTSD, Severe Depression, Anxiety states "belong. Insulation. Suicide attempts. Infinite rage. "The service has cost me my relationship with my eldest son and grandson," he added.
A Twitter user who identified herself as Karen responded to the Army Tweet and said she had her virginity lost. "At age 19, he was raped by peers and then married a nice guy who was part of my unit. After the invasion of Iraq, however, he came home as a "changed man, who beat the shit out of me. "
Karen was one of many women who investigated cases of harassment and maltreatment in detail the military. Another woman wrote that she was " attacked by one of my superiors ." She reported about him, "but nothing happened to him. Nothing. A year later stole a laptop and was then downgraded. I am worth less than a laptop. "Another woman wrote that she suffered from" PTSD, depression, anxiety, nightmares " because during my service sexual harassment was committed for which no one was held accountable. "
Some wrote about how their loved ones deteriorated after the impact. One mother said she was "proud" when her son signed up for duty. "This young man, who has his whole life before him, is now mentally and emotionally broken beyond recognition, and the army is not helpful," she wrote . Another person wrote in the name of her friend : "My sweet friend David can not answer you, he killed himself after a few Afghanistan tours a few years ago." Nathan wrote about how he treated his mother " after her tour in Aghanistan, with a knife in the closet, "and how fireworks still scares her." I was impressed because my mother is mentally never the same again, "he wrote," so thanks for that. "
Although many characterized the responses to the tweet as failing social media for the army, others disagreed. "Some say that this thread has a backfired effect, but this is just the thread that is needed on every day of remembrance to remind us of the victims, the military members and their families, and how we as the country understand the true cost of the service and improve our support. " Mike Schmidt wrote .
The Army thanked all those who had contributed their story to the thread . "Since we honor those who made the last sacrifice this weekend by thinking of their ministry, we are also aware that we have to take care of those who have come home with scars we do not wrote .