The Family Weekly
Welcome back to The Family Weekly. Every Saturday morning, we'll send you a selection of our favorite stories from The Atlantic & Family Section. We appreciate your joining us in exploring questions about family life and human relationships.
This week in the family
The movement that followed the school shooting in Parkland, Florida, has been driven by young people – but it has also shown an interesting dynamic between young and old. Rachel Gutman, editor of The Atlantic was surprised when her grandfather, who had not come to a demonstration since the 1
And the teenagers are really engaged in a conversation interested in the generation ahead of them: today's rebels are looking for more protection and support for adults in a break from history. "Children are demanding that their voices be heard, but they are not pushing back against adult vigilance," noted The Atlantic's s literary editor Ann Hulbert. "They want more, not less."
Rachel Gutman's grandfather participated in the demonstration March for Our Lives in Washington DC last Saturday. (Rachel Gutman / Katie Martin / The Atlantic )
The Big Question
What does regular family time mean for children and parents? A 100-year-old Mormon ritual, where families meet once a week to pray, play games, and spend time together, keeps the ideal of family time alive:
More than 100 years after the family home, it has been celebrated in gaining new relevance in a modern, fast-paced culture. … [Parents] talked about how useful family home evening is in order to suppress this acceleration of everyday life. One parent we interviewed said that one of his children finds the ritual boring, and while he says that his child is not always wrong, he "occasionally just clicks it … It's a real feeling Unity as a family. "A young teenager we talked to felt similar. She said that the family home evening "takes you away from all the stuff of the world" and "gives you the chance to realize that you are your family".
How do you banish family time? Read the play by David C. Dollahite and Loren Marks and tell us their story in Homebodies, The Atlantic 's Facebook Group on Family Life
Every Wednesday of the Psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb answers The Atlantic in the column "Dear Therapist" the questions of readers about big and small suffering in life.
This week a parent worries when she hears of her 18 year old son's dreams of becoming a stand-up comedian – a career path she fears will take him into her thirties at the age of 35 Find basement. Lori's Advice:
It is normal for parents to teach wisdom to our children – in part it is. But sometimes we forget that our children also have wisdom to give us. Throughout their lives, our children teach us hundreds of ways to control – how illusory it is, how futile our attempts to preserve it, and how liberating it can be to letting go, for all those involved. The good news is that you do not have to choose your son's way for him – because the reality is you are not coming.
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