Published 2:53 pm, Sunday, March 25, 2018
Sometime in mid-2017, Maarib Al Hishmawi's parents told her that they had found a husband for their marriage.
Soon he would pay the family $ 20,000, they said, according to investigators. Afterwards, the 15-year-old Maarib moved to another city and was his bride.
When Maarib retired, her parents passed – violently. They beat them with broomsticks, said Sheriff Javier Salazar from Bexar, Texas. They suffocated her "almost to unconsciousness." They threw hot oil on them.
The only way to stop the violence was to give in – or at least to make their parents think.
Maarib said she would go through the marriage. But as her wedding date approached, she worked on a plan. On January 30, Maarib left Taft High School in San Antonio and disappeared.
The authorities began looking for the 5-foot, 150-pound girl and speculated that she may have returned to the Middle East, according to San Antonio ABC subsidiary KSAT. They asked the FBI for help, partly to overcome language and cultural barriers that hindered the investigation. The increased investigation brought the girl and Salazar's "heartrending" reason for her disappearance on her lap.
"This young woman … was subjected to some pretty bad abuses because she did not want to be married to this person," said Salazar.
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On Friday, the authorities announced that their parents – Abdulah Fahmi Al Hishmawi, 34, and Hamdiyah Sabah Al Hishmawi, 33 – were arrested and charged with continuing abuse of a family member.
Maarib, now 16, got together They were detained with their five siblings between the ages of 5 and 15. The police did not say if they suspected that these children were abused, Salazar said, and they will not say where Maarib fled for help.
But for more than a month they had suspected that abuse was a factor in their disappearance.
"I can not speculate on who [abused her] or when or how stre ng "BCSO deputy chief deputy Ronald Bennett said in a February news conference, KSAT reports. "I understand that this was a recurring problem for her after a few interviews."
Authorities have not detailed what they know about the marriage agreement.
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Women's organizations warn against using the term "arranged marriage" to describe situations such as maaribs. Marriage is an agreement between two people, and in some cultures an arranged marriage can include a significant contribution from family members.
But all that is marked by compulsion, where individuals are forced to marry against their will, under duress and / or without full, free and informed consent from both parties, is not an arranged marriage, it is forced marriage Canada-based South Asian Women's Center (SAWC). Forced marriages also include those involving every child under the age of 18 – the age at which they can make an informed decision.
Such marriages can also disguise trafficking and domestic violence – and such associations with minors can be particularly cumbersome, the organization said
"Their right to education is being violated as they are likely to have to give up their education, which effectively slows their development "said the SAWC about girls who were involved in such agreements. "Children forced to marry also put their health at risk as they tend to have children very young, usually before their bodies are ready for childbirth, and they also have a higher chance of getting HIV / AIDS and other sexual to get communicable diseases. "  The authorities are still trying to decide what to do with the man on the other side of the marriage contract. Salazar said the investigators knew who he was and told the San Antonio Express News "it is very likely that he will also be charged."
It was unclear on Sunday when Maarib's parents would expect the next trial date. Authorities told the Express News that the family had been in Visa in the United States for two years, but they did not disclose which country they emigrated from.
When Maarib's parents were taken away in handcuffs, the Express News was reported to be heard screaming at her father in the media, accusing his daughter of her arrest.