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#NotAllMen, says Meryl Streep
Meryl Streep is not a big fan of the phrase "venomous masculinity". apparently. During a panel discussion about the new season of Big Little Lies, the cast began to talk about how many men enjoyed the women-led show; Then Streep announced, "We hurt our boys by calling something poisonous as masculinity. Women can be damn poisonous … they're poisonous people.
"We have our good and bad angles," Streep continued. "I think the labels are less helpful than what we want to achieve, a direct communication between people, we're all on the boat together, we need to get it up and running."
(Excuse me, can anyone do the boat Please stop for a moment, I just need a second while my eyes stop rolling.)
Seriously, Meryl? Serious? I do not want to refer to Streep's comments as "ridiculous" because labels are less helpful than what I want to achieve. This is the fact that Streep obviously has no idea what "venomous masculinity" means. I do not have to say that, it should be obvious, but "virile masculinity" does not mean that males are poisonous or that masculinity is de facto toxic. Rather, it means that extreme forms of traits traditionally associated with masculinity, such as aggression and stoicism, are toxic. Rights, however, like to pretend to be an attack on men because they can quickly derail conversations about rigid gender norms and pretend that feminism is a conspiracy against men. In fact, conservative outlets like Fox News already have a big day with Streep's comments.
We do not "hurt our boys" by calling certain behaviors "poisonous masculinity". We hurt our boys when we teach them to suppress their feelings and treat women as inferior species to be controlled and controlled. And poisonous masculinity not only hurts men, it kills them too. In America, for example, men die 3.5 times more frequently than women ̵
It has also been proven that venomous masculinity kills women. Women die far more often by the hands of their partner than men, to give just one example. A United Nations global study on 2018 homicides states that "Violence in the partnership against women and girls is rooted in universally accepted gender norms on the authority of men … and the use of force by men to exercise control over women. Studies have shown that men and boys who have strong views on gender roles and masculinity are more likely to use force against a partner. "
Streep is right that women can also be" damn poisonous ". But she misses the point completely again; It's not about individual women, but about rigid social norms associated with femininity. To say that being a woman is poisonous means being pretty and pure. To find out that your value as a woman is based on marrying and giving birth to children is poisonous. It is poisonous to teach to cry in distress and play the girl to avoid accountability. The teaching of treating other women as sexual rivals is poisonous.
Here, however, is the big difference between poisonous masculinity and poisonous femininity: the latter is much less deadly, much less dangerous. The difference between toxic masculinity and toxic femininity is that the President of the United States is not a woman who boasts of having men on her genitals and dismisses this as a "locker room talk." The difference is that there are not two judges accused of sexual misconduct. The difference is that a group of powerful women are not adopting legislation to prevent American men from taking control of their own bodies.
The fact that Streep can talk about how "virile masculinity" as a phrase harms boys at a time when American women are currently facing a massive attack on their reproductive rights, is insane. The fact that she can cheerfully say that "we are all on the boat together", when the Republicans made it clear that they are steering the boat towards Gilead, is annoying. But at least she stopped her talk about politeness there, I suppose. At least we can be grateful that she did not tell us that All Lives is a matter, and we should not focus on labels or races because we are all Africans.
Women's Fertility App Funded by Anti-Abortion Activists
A Guardian investigation found that the Femm app, which allows women to keep track of their menstrual cycle, was funded on a large scale by Catholic activists against abortions , The Guardian also notes that the literature in the Femm app raises doubts about the safety and efficacy of hormonal contraception, arguing that this may potentially endanger a woman's health and that it is a safer, "natural" option for women is to avoid pregnancy when learning how to become pregnant cycles. "This is the recent worrying reminder that women-focused health apps are not always for your benefit.
America's war on abortion continues.
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For the first time in the history of South Africa, half of all Cabinet posts are filled by women.
Leonardo DiCreepio's brutal dating habits
Someone from Reddit has created a graphic showing Leonardo DiCaprio (44) refuses to turn 25 with a woman. Since 1999, the average age of his girlfriends is 22.9 years.
The French men's football team needs a conversation with
The Women's World Cup is around the corner, which is something of a big deal. This has not stopped the French men's football team from throwing the women's team out of the national training camp a few days before the start of the competition. Nice, guys.
Accidental penis in the sky
The US Air Force has used its fighter jets to draw phallic images in the sky during training exercises. The most recent incident was on Tuesday, but the air force officials insisted that there was no shameful or inappropriate behavior during the training flight. Rest assured, it was just a fight.
In the US, the lifeblood for suicide prevention is 1-800-273-8255 and the Domestic Violence Hotline is 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Other international helplines can be found at www.befrienders.org. In the United Kingdom and Ireland, Samaritans can be contacted at 116 123 and the Domestic Violence Helpline is 0808 2000 247. In Australia, the lifeline of the Crisis Response Service is 13 11 14 and the Domestic Violence Counseling Center 1800 737 732.