"I do not know how much I can say because I do not want to be my wife, "Middleditch said. "Only after I got married I like that, 'Mollie, I'm sorry, but we did not get it tonight.' To her credit, instead of saying … 'I'm out,' she was like, 'Let's figure this out.' "
Not only did they figure out, but the 37-year-old actor said" To be honest, swinging has saved our marriage. "
" We have different speeds, and we're arguing over it constantly, but it's better than feeling unheard and alone and that's scurry in the shadows, "he said. By the way, it's now called being part of the lifestyle. ' The term swinging is old. "
Middleditch said being" part of the lifestyle "
" I self-deprecatingly call myself a pervert, but that's not what it is, "hey said. I'm sexual. "
Marriage to Gates, 32, did not change that, he said.
" I'd always thought I was in love , that stuff fades away, it says, 'I should get married, and I'll be different,' "Middleditch said. "But it's part of me."
The couple have rules, he said, and function as a unit.
"It's a perpetual state of management and communication, to the point where it's like," All right, we've got to stop Chill, '"Middleditch said. "I'm gas, and she's brakes." This is actually the premise for a comedy series we're writing together. "